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WE UNDERSTAND THE FEAR AND CONFUSION OF TRYING TO OPEN A RELATIONSHIP WELL.
1. You want to explore an open relationship, but you are terrified of hurting each other.
2. You do not know where to start, what structure fits, or how to do this without guesswork.
3. Jealousy, anxiety, and insecurity keep getting activated.
4. The conversations feel messy, circular, or too emotionally loaded.
5. One of you is more ready than the other, and that creates guilt, pressure, or resentment.Â
6. You feel alone trying to build something few people around you understand.
THE SCHOOL OF ENM
GUIDANCE FRAMEWORK
When your relationship is built with clarity, hard conversations become easier, emotional safety grows, and opening feels less chaotic.
Thatâs why School of ENM exists;Â a grounded coaching and education framework that helps people build the skills needed to navigate open relationships with more care, confidence, and intention.
This guidance is designed to reduce confusion, lower emotional overwhelm, and help couples move through open relationship challenges with more honesty, better communication, and less preventable damage.
With this support, youâll get:
Clearer communication
so hard conversations stop going in circles.
Increase feelings of safety.Â
including boundaries, pacing, and reassurance.
A relationship blueprint that actually fits
instead of copying someone elseâs model.
 Grounded support from ENM coaches
so you are not left trying to figure it out alone
We have helped numerous clients navigate uncharted territories and build their ideal relationship dynamic.Â
The A to Z of ENM
Your complete step-by-step foundation for doing ENM well
 $700 AUD / ~$500USD
â A structured program for people who want to open their relationship with clarity, care, and confidence
â Video modules you can pause, reflect on, and work through at your own pace
â Includes an ENM Toolkit with meditations, visualisations, and worksheets
â Includes 2 x coaching sessions, 8x entries to the ENM Support Circle, entire course and toolkit!
â Best for couples or individuals who want a solid foundation before painful trial and error takes over.
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Specialised ENM Coaching
Personalised support for the situations that need more care
$150AUD / ~$100USD
â Private coaching for jealousy, boundaries, communication, insecurity, mismatched desire, and emotional overwhelm
â Support tailored to your exact relationship structure, challenges, and goals
â Best for people navigating complex dynamics or needing help applying ENM skills in real life
â Most effective alongside The A to Z of ENM, so you have both the foundation and personal guidance
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The ENM Circle
A weekly 1-hour check-in space where you can bring real-life situations, challenges, and wins;Â and be supported in real time.
This is where the work becomes ongoing, grounded, and integrated into your actual relationships.
Youâll be surrounded by others on a similar path, creating a space that feels supportive, normalising, and growth-focused.
If you want to be apart of this experience, join the waitlist below.
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Join Our ENM Circle Waiting listÂ
We will reach out when there is space in your time zone.
Open Relationship
âI have become better at trying to articulate my needs and my boundaries, I know what I am actually looking forâ
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âIt was so rich and detailed, we had to go back and look at sections 2-3 times, particularly the communication sectionâÂ
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âI have learned more about my partner in the last 6 months than the last 30 years of marriageâ Â
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âIt was healing, a lot of wounds were exposed when we started, and this allowed us space to healâÂ
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âHaving never had the mastermind I wouldnât have had the confidence to tip my toe into this - to exploreâ
Solo Poly
âThe regulation module that honestly opened my eyes and helped me and the people around me to be able to feel I am unregulated to âput a pin in thisâ, do some self care, and come back to this conversation, and then communicating that is so important. The communication module also spoke to me, its one of the things I am always bragging to people about, and recommending people to. Its just so unique, youâve done all this research, and pulled it together so that people like myself can use these tools.â Â
Polyamorous
"I first joined Polly's ENM beginners support FB group because I wanted to understand my partner better. We hadn't been together very long but I understood she was poly by nature. I had read Poly Secure and worked through the workbook but was still struggling with anxiety. After reading many of Polly's posts and hearing her deeply empathetic and thoughtful responses, I then watched a couple' s testimonial video she posted. It was then that I sought out Polly directly. I wanted the peace, kindness and understanding that couple shared. I learned a great deal though the Master class program, the group meetings and my one on one's with Polly. I still struggle from time to time but I now have the tools and resources to help me make my way through this process easier."
Open Relationship
âThere is a lot of information in these classes, its all useful, but its a lot⌠its nice to go back and re-read and re-watch, there is a lot of information but its all helpfulâÂ
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PolyamorousÂ
âThe way you have presented it makes it very easy to go back to and click on. When I have a situation come up I switch it on and the way you have worded it all makes it simpleâ
